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Catelynn Lowell & Tyler Baltierra Call Out Their Biological Daughter’s Parents Brandon & Teresa For “Refusing to Make Time” for Annual Visit; Tyler Denies His Actions Played a Part in the Decision

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Catelynn Lowell & Tyler Baltierra Call Out Their Biological Daughter’s Parents Brandon & Teresa For “Refusing to Make Time” for Annual Visit; Tyler Denies His Actions Played a Part in the Decision

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“What’s the deal, BrandonAndTeresa?”

Teen Mom stars Catelynn Lowell and Tyler Baltierra sounded off on social media this week after learning they would not get their annual visit with their soon-to-be 15-year-old biological daughter, Carly.

As fans know, Cate and Tyler placed Carly for adoption immediately after her birth in 2009 and over the years, the couple have maintained a relationship– albeit estranged at times– with Carly and her parents Brandon and Teresa Davis.

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“Do you really have to ask why?”

Cate and Tyler have also publicly discussed the highs and lows of their adoption experience over the last 15 years, often to the dismay of Carly’s parents, who have asked the reality TV stars not to post about them or Carly on social media.

On Friday, Cate spoke to one of those “lows” after revealing her and Tyler’s annual visit with Carly wouldn’t be happening this year. Sheexpressed her frustration and confusion over Carly’s parents not making time for her and Tyler to see Carly.

“Adoption is wild… Being at the mercy of someone that can say no.. (I know I chose this no need to tell me!)” Catelynn wrote on Instagram Stories. “I just will never understand how you say that you ‘love’ us and will always be ‘blessed’ for us.. BUT you can’t take TWO days out of your entire year to just meet up for dinner and do a park or something small? Especially when we said we would travel to YALL?!”

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“I know for me.. the people I LOVE and are blessed to have, I MAKE time for!” she continued. “So now we most likely won’t see her until she’s 16… and who knows if that will even happen… Sorry I had to vent because I just can’t wrap my head around the fact that you ‘love’ and ‘care’ about us but refuse to make time… .”

After revealing the news, Cate posted a quote to her Instagram Story that mentioned the “heartache” that often comes with adoption.

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“‘Adoption is a beautiful thing,’” the quote read. “Oh how I often hear those words and it makes me cringe… Yes, adoption is a beautiful story. But that phrase brushes aside the heartache, the pain, and the loss that so often comes along with it.”

After Cate revealed that her and Tyler’s annual visit with Carly wouldn’t be happening this year, some fans began speculating online the reasons why Brandon and Teresa made the decision, with some assuming Tyler’s OnlyFans side hustle–- which Cate runs on her husband’s behalf–- may have played a part in Carly’s parents noping the hell out of this year’s meetup.

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This certainly didn’t help things…

Other theorized that it was comments Tyler made online about Brandon and Teresa earlier this year that made Carly’s parents decide to forgo their visit with the Baltierras.

As The Ashley previously told you, Tyler received backlash from fans in February after dropping a fresh crop of man-meat modeling pics on OnlyFans, with several people warning Tyler that Brandon and Teresa wouldn’t approve of the content. In response, Tyler said he couldn’t get the approval of Carly’s parents even before he started showing off his Batman-tattooed body online.

“What are you going to do in 10 years when the MTV money is gone and no one gives a damn about your [OnlyFans]?” one person asked Tyler in a tweet. “Oh, and how do you expect Brandon and Teresa to respond to this? They don’t want to be associated with this nonsense!”

“IDK, I’ll prolly just move back into a trailer park where I belong,” Tyler responded. “And as far as B&T go, I couldn’t please them or get their approval if I was damn Mother Teresa herself lol. Besides, I refuse to live my life trying to live up to anyone’s expectations besides my own!”

On Friday, Tyler took to his Instagram Stories  to address the “comments, opinions and theories” fans had on why Brandon and Teresa made the decision to not arrange a meetup this year. In his statement, Tyler noted that, while annual visits with Carly were something they had “mutually agreed upon,” Brandon and Teresa have chosen not to follow through with them “MULTIPLE times.”

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“This is nothing new or foreign to our story,” he said, adding that Carly’s parents’ decision was not made due to anything he or Catelynn did.

“There’s nothing we have done in our personal lives that has influenced this decision,” he claimed, admitting that not getting to visit Carly has been “disappointing” and “hurtful.”

However, he recognized that Brandon and Teresa are Carly’s parents and “the only ones who have the authority to make these decisions.”

Tyler went on to say that he and Cate have to “trust” that Carly’s parents are making decisions that are in the best interest of Carly.

“That is the honor, privilege and gift we chose to give them when we decided that they would raise her and be her parents,” Tyler wrote, before going on to express the pain that comes with placing a child for adoption.

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“Hmmm…maybe we don’t need to mention that?”

“ … Most will never know what it’s like to grow, nurture, love & carry such a beautiful perfect innocence like your own baby…only to painfully relinquish that natural bond to another to do what you know you can’t for the sake of your baby,” he wrote. “It’s a pain that’s equal to death & I don’t wish it upon my worst enemy. At least with death, there’s a tragic finality to it…tragic yes, but it’s final.

“ … grieving your own child while they are still [alive] is truly an unexplainable pain in so many ways, I won’t even attempt to put it into words,” he continued. “So with that pain, inevitably comes emotional reactions & expressions.”

He then asked fans to show Catelynn some grace and not judge her for showing her frustration with the adoption.

“My wife fights this pain every day,” Tyler wrote. “Some days are a victory & some days are not. But her expressing that pain on those particular days when she’s vulnerable, sad & at a loss, should not be used as an attack against her character.”

Tyler added that while “assumptions, criticism and judgments” come with being in the spotlight, he and Cate are “still human beings at the end of the day.”

“This whole thing is hard for everyone involved,” he concluded. “We’re only human after all & I believe we could all use some more grace and understanding towards one another!”

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